ego and human dignity

Been spending a lot of time lately on the idea of the ego, the mechanics, causes, and properties of it (sort of funny since it is subconsciously always there.  But more consciously I mean).  This thing we have labeled the ego.  Among all the trash that inhibits our mind, the greatest limiter, and grand trash creator seems to be a regular self consciousness or awareness in either adding to, or subtracting from this image of self.  Defending it, refining it, etc.

So...we've all probably been on the road of adding to the self and tired to some degree with this preoccupation.  Identifications with this, that or the other to give us a sense of substance, value, or meaning.

Just one idea on the ego that may or may not be of some use to you all.  Something that can tame the reflexiveness of consciousness toward this image.  Basic dignity.  Something that can never be taken from us.  we can be shamed by others or even shame ourselves, but it's always there.  Especially if we are striving toward maintaining that dignity rather than careflessly or selfishly living.  We may stumble, fumble or fall and never measure up in the eyes of some....We may be criticized by others or ourselves, scorned, treated unfairly, treated with disdain, miss an appointment, or miss a step, but we always have our basic dignity.  Always.  It's our inherent right and noone can take it from us but ourselves.  We are all very, very precious and valuable...and that's it.  Period..  The mistake that's made is that society simply cannot honor this well enough to nurture this understanding.  From the day we are born. 

So I wonder if we sometimes get too caught up in the misteps to relax.  To forgive our inherent imperfects and limitations. To allow this vigilant awareness of the concern toward the self to abate.  And also in the misteps of others rather than seeing the negative qualities or misteps, but to instead honor the basic dignity inherent in us all.  This may be one thought to help (along with other approaches) to just stop the charade and honor the intrinsic nature and beauty in us all that requires no defense and no explanation.

the defense rests ;-)


On the other hand...and simultaneously

I believe critique is invaluable.  In spreading joy and love and affection, we often choose to not ADD, correct, or question.  Often it really does have NOTHING to do with being right, which a common idea.  It has to do with the assembly of understanding and wisdom.

Clearly, then, we should both love and honor basic dignity, as a regular and consistent presense, while also engaging in meaningful dialogue.  These ARE two powerful opposing forces.

So it is tricky