How do you show someone you love them?

I try to see who they are completely and love them for their brilliance and uniqueness and special talents as well as for their shortcomings and weaknesses. Both can be endearing. By knowing that person, i am more than likely to engage in a loving way and highlight just who they are in their uniqueness and respond to who they are. This requires a lot of listening, reading between the lines, NOT projecting my own nonsense onto them, etc. i like the idea of full attention and full listening. Something I don't always pull off real well, but i try. there's this dual sort of thing going on. our wheels get turning on different things you know. subtextual stuff. Not necessarily bad. Really cool stuff. but...I do get caught up in analysis and the fascination of the experience when face to face. That tends to enhance the listening though in many ways. This sort of 'sidebar' current. cool surprises are always good. thoughtful ones. goes with the knowing the person really well. having lots of energy and turning on like a light bulb when they're around is sort of a thing that just happens. nothing planned there. trying to always be original and creative. fighting for the relationship and remembering they're amazing qualities when we're down or the relationship is down. Not giving up. keeping them in my life and forgiving. i guess that's the unconditional part. Showing concern and compassion and being there when in pain. all sorts of stuff i guess